Unhappy Marriage But Can’t Leave ️ Does he Love Me⁉️

In this lesson, we will cover a very popular question asked by women in seemingly unhappy marriages; “does he love me?” But first which one? There is a difference between Love & In-Love It’s simple. To love someone is a deliberate value driven act while to be in-love is a feeling that comes from attraction and often a sense of newness. It is possible for a man to love you and not necessarily be in love with you. That is to say, the attraction level is low and unfortunately you can feel it that he is not drawn to you as evident by this question. So if you can't tell in his body language, he is probably not in love with you at the moment. But keep in mind that it is probably temporary, especially if you have experienced the feeling of him being in love with you in the past ...depending on how far into the past it has been. If a man still needs you in his life, he probably loves you because again loving someone is a value driven deliberate action. But in that same space, he may net be as attracted to you as he needs to be. To love someone is a process and an on-going thing while being in love with a person is more of a state of mind; a feeling. If he is in love with you, you will be able to tell as he shows that he can't have enough for you. For a man to love at that level takes a while and a process of growth. 34 years into marriage, a man can love you and it would be synonymous to being in love with you because that relationship has probably been tested. So the idea of not being with you is not a thing and cannot be even remotely entertained. But it is a value driven act because it took time, a process and probably all types of tests on his character and the dynamics of your relationship with him to be in that space. Therefore if you just met this man recently, loving you is not exactly relevant as he probably doesn't even know himself ...with respect to your relationship enough. However, he may be in-love with you but you would be able to tell from his body language and other forms of expression if he is. As an adult, the other question is if you are in love with him. I would go out on a limb as an answer for you; YES. Wondering a man's feelings for you is one of the signs of high attraction and that you are in love with the idea of that person. If this was a high school situation, no one knows themselves enough to be able to recognize real love. How do I get out of an unhappy marriage when he is not in love with me? If a man is not in love with you, that's just a temporary feeling and a sign of low attraction. So getting out of the marriage is not a solution especially if you've ever experienced high attraction in the marriage in the past. Therefore if you have, the next best thing to do is to learn how to make him want you again. It's a nice little known skill that you probably used unknowingly when you were also in that space of giving naturally into the marriage. The first step is to know that there is no such thing as an "unhappy marriage"; there are one of 2 unhappy people in a marriage. And secondly, if you know anything about happiness, it comes from the inside and never from another person, a spouse or a partner. You may argue that others can influence your happiness. I agree. But ultimately, that's called environmental factors... kinda like the weather. Your marriage surroundings may feel gloomy but again, that's a feeling. And with proper knowledge, wisdom and empowerment, you can control how you feel from the inside... and like I said, true happiness only comes from the inside. If you give other people and your environment the power to control how happy you feel, it will always be that much short of true joy; a necessary ingredient for "marriage goals". Thirdly, you go into a relationship to give. So leaving this marriage for any reason outside of physical abuse will not necessarily make you happy. ***Check out BLOG POST for full and detailed Description*** https://lolaandola.com/does-he-love-me #HelpForMarriage #marriage #lolaandola RELATED TOPICS relationship advice things a man will do only if he really loves you 10 when he's in love for women signs that antonio borrello make him of true does me is falling with likes help marriage how know madly tell bed quiz adults body language accurate or the idea high school back FREE BO0K ➡️ http://GetMyMarriageBack.com Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids. After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they’ve found real love at last, got their marriage back. They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.

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